You are who You are and so are those you love and hate

We are all products of our environment(s), experiences and determination, this is why some friendships and or relationships ends. This is why we form new friendships and relationships. People need to interact with one other and to do so most are drawn to others with similar experiences, interests and determination. So don't be shock if you see a friend or relative bonding with someone with whom you cannot connect with, because in order for that friend or relative to be their true self, in order for that friend or relative to be whole they need that interaction.