Don't put the cart before the horse

If you want a meaningful love filled relationship please don't put the cart before the horse when you are searching for the one, or if you want to arranged marriage is for you. I am currently watching the bachelorette and I just realized that I would not make it pass the first round, because I hate to blindly plan for anything, it will cause me great anxiety if none of these plans work out, so I kind of go with the flow.
I did not grow up in a traditional family so my ideal is different from the norm, I grewup seeing how the other half lives and it worked for me. If I fall in love I will consider marriage and all that and until then I am not going to worry about stuff like that because in my reality I have seen people happy and sad being single or married and now I am happy and I am one of those lucky people who loves their space and have more fun alone that in a group, i do enjoy hanging out with my friends and relative that amuse me but silence is always golden.